Do you want an intimate relationship, but instead you feel lonely and disconnected with your partner, or you can’t find the partner of your dreams? Is there too much distance or drama in your relationship? Is anger or withdrawal tearing you apart? Would you like to experience deeper intimacy and spiritually fulfilling connection with your partner? How often in your life have you felt that magical feeling of deeply connecting with another? Are you willing to address the difficult stuff that stands in the way of your intimate relationship? How can you integrate the feminine and masculine energies inside yourself, and move from relationship based on co-dependency to one based on wholeness, true companionship, abundance and co-creation?
In the depths of our souls we have an intense desire for love and connection with others. But why are love, connection, and intimacy so elusive? This is because many people are not strong enough to love: they don’t feel safe enough in themselves to risk loving another. Our disconnection from each other is driven by the extent to which we react defensively whenever our fears of rejection and engulfment are triggered.
Relationship inevitably touches us profoundly. Deep emotions or our own unresolved issues may get touched, our buttons may get pushed, painful unresolved emotional conflicts from the past may come up, continually stirring us up against things in ourselves that we cannot stand — all our worst fears, neuroses, and fixations. Understanding each other’s core vulnerabilities and healing these fears, will give us a new perspective on our relationship – that leads to compassionate connection.
Gradually we began to discover that our souls had their own intentions in drawing us together to the relationship. Soul Heartered Relationship takes on a larger purpose beyond just survival or security, but we are in each other’s lives to catalyze growth. It is the perfect way for us to wake up, to discover that the unloved, unclaimed potential of our own soul (unconscious aspects of our Self) is that part of our own Being which is waiting to be discovered, confronted, and finally embraced through the encounter with the other.
Soul-Hearted Relationship empowers us to embrace the unknown by becoming co-creators of our reality. The difficult challenges that we encounter in relationships are invitations to open ourselves to the sacred play of the known and the unknown, the seen and the unseen, and the larger truths born out of intimate contact with the great mystery of life itself. It is an evolutionary path – so that we can work with our blind spots in a more compassionate way; and a sacred path – helping us heal our alienation from other people, from ourselves, and from the depths and heights of life as a whole.
Areas of focus include:
(i) Creating Compassionate Connection
(ii) Transcending Polarities & Balancing inner feminine and masculine energies
(iii) Projections and Integration of the Shadow in Relationship